Is it possible to keep ears of dry rye at home? Keep wheat ears at home. An ear of grain is pleasing to the “owner”

A trifle, but unpleasant

Even a small souvenir in your home can bring a lot of misfortune

Our apartments are always full of a wide variety of objects and things - from purely functional ones used in everyday life to decorating the interiors of rooms. Previously, a person always knew which things were “good” and which were “evil”, he knew what material should be made of what. Today, the new science of bioenergetics (one of the important parts of parapsychology) is gradually restoring this largely lost knowledge.

Here are some practical tips to help make your life safer, better, more joyful

An elephant with its trunk up (trumpeting) brings good luck to the house and helps to defeat ill-wishers, and an elephant with its trunk down (sleeping) brings despondency, melancholy, depression, frequent heavy thoughts, and stress into the house.
Figurines of pigeons, crows, magpies, wading birds, eagles, and storks bring bad luck.
Heating materials (old worn-out slippers or other worn-out shoes) should be thrown away and not put in cabinets and shoe boxes, as they attract damage, the evil eye and slander to their owner.
Small salt shakers, from which salt often spills out, and in which it also accumulates on the sides all the time, are also an undesirable thing in the house. They tend to provoke quarrels, intrigues, squabbles and even scandals with fights, and attract evil gossip.
Dishes with chips and cracks lose their energetic integrity and, accordingly, disrupt the energy of food, either reducing its energy value or making it completely negative. Eating or drinking from such containers will only harm yourself.
Knives left on the table overnight accumulate negative energy and attract all sorts of evil spirits, which, receiving energy from this knife, remain in the house for a long time, disturbing the sleep, peace and comfort of household members. In addition, this knife becomes dangerous because it makes it easier for them to inflict sudden and unexpected cuts on themselves. Knives with broken or chipped blades have the same properties. There is no need to try to put them in order, but should secretly bury them in the ground.
Living plants, the stems of which twine around the walls (except for grapes), have the property of attracting various diseases to the owners of the house.
Flowers in the house:
Wax flowers - to the death of a relative; flowers made of fabric - to illness after minor quarrels; feather flowers (fluffy) - an accident; flowers made of plastic - to monetary losses; paper flowers - to news of a serious illness of loved ones.
Reeds in the house are especially dangerous. It is not yet clear why, but they often portend a long, serious illness with a fatal outcome.
Suddenly dried fresh flowers mean separation from a loved one, as well as divorce.
Chinese lanterns are by no means the best element of room decor, as they cause sudden, unreasonable fears and melancholy.
Plaster figures and figurines are bad because they interfere with concentration on the most important thing, distract from pressing matters, weaken the will, and lead a person into the world of illusions.
Gifts that are not to your liking will bring misfortune if you do not get rid of them, as they were given with bad feelings or a slander.
Paintings and prints depicting something uncomfortable for the eye disturb peace of mind, interfere with spiritual improvement, and weaken memory.
A sculpture of a dog or lion sitting on its hind legs and with its mouth open brings misfortune, as it attracts evil spirits to itself, while simultaneously depriving a person of intuition.
Any image of fish makes you vulnerable to damage and the evil eye, and also attracts thieves to your home.
Seashells, which many people like to bring as souvenirs from the south, unfortunately, also bring misfortune, as they lead to a deterioration in the functioning of blood vessels and the heart.
Animal horns can cause the loss of a loved one or separation from him, provoke illness and mental trauma.
A broom in the house always symbolizes money, but there are some nuances here. Using an old, worn-out broom means inviting ruin or long-term lack of money; new and well made means protecting your own financial well-being and increasing your chances of increasing your fortune. If the broom is positioned with the handle down, you will be able to avoid the envy of friends, the evil eye, slander, and also constantly maintain financial wealth in the house; handle up - according to ancient wisdom, this will lead to inevitable losses and high expenses. Keeping an old broom in the house means incurring losses through illness. Sweeping the floor in the evening, according to the sign, means sweeping money out of the house - there will be no wealth. Therefore, from time immemorial, floors were swept in the first half of the day.

Now let's talk about what brings goodness into the house

Ficus creates a positive aura around itself, helps to concentrate, calm down after stress, extinguish nervousness, and normalizes the energy in the house. To restore physical and mental health, sit in the evening for half an hour near a ficus, holding its leaf between your palms and closing your eyes, mentally tell it about your failures, and it will help you get rid of negative thoughts and emotions.
A tanned fur skin, according to a long-standing belief, promotes successful trade, increases capital, and also protects previously acquired property.
Ears of wheat, rye, oats, placed in a vase (they can even be artificial), always contribute only to well-being, wealth, health, comfort and peace in the house. They perfectly neutralize currents of negative energy. During the period from December 25 to January 6, it is recommended to constantly keep a vase with cookies, bagels, crackers, and bread rolls on the table, as this will ensure profitable financial agreements on these days, receiving a large sum of money, and possibly news of an inheritance or will.
A figurine of a bear, placed in a prominent place, protects the house from evil spirits and evil spells, is a talisman of the family hearth, and also stores monetary wealth in the house. She should be alternately in the room and in the kitchen.
Household items with folk painting (Zhostovo, Palekh, Khokhloma, Gzhel, etc.) have a beneficial effect on the nervous system and lift your spirits. This is explained by the fact that each drawing on them is a magical symbol or sign that came from time immemorial, serving as a talisman of health, a talisman of wisdom, intuition and well-being (i.e., it helps you find them).
A matryoshka doll with an even number of figures is a talisman for money, prosperity, helps to avoid bankruptcy, and also preserves existing well-being and health. With an odd number of figures - protects against a bad uninvited guest, the evil eye, illness and family quarrels.
Sofa cushions embroidered with flowers in warm tones are a talisman of marital love, cold colors - develop the gift of foreboding of failure, embroidery with flowers - protects against separation from a loved one, embroidered ornament - protects from sudden danger, embroidery with images of people, landscapes, buildings - helps to preserve success in various business endeavors.
A strong amulet against the evil eye and damage is the icon called the Seven Shot. Located opposite the front door, it will not only protect you from the evil eye and guests with bad intentions, but will also prevent them from even approaching your doors. With her appearance in the house, there are fewer scandals and conflicts, slander and anger that can arise due to trifles.

If you feel spiritual discomfort, inexplicable fatigue, ask the holy image for help (in your own words) - it protects people’s souls from misfortunes. While in front of the icon, hold a lit church candle in your hands, and after extinguishing it, remove the stub and use it next time. This candle cannot be placed near other icons; it must burn out in front of the Seven Shots icon. Such an appeal to the icon will gradually remove the evil eye, extinguish the anger caused by others, restore your physical strength and the former joy of your soul and heart.

Over the years, our apartments are filled with a wide variety of objects and things - from those needed in everyday life to those that decorate the interiors of rooms. In past centuries, man always knew which things were “good” and which were “evil”, he knew what material should be made of what. Today, bioenergy is gradually restoring this largely lost knowledge.

Here are some practical tips that will help make your life safer, better, more joyful.

Things that cause trouble

Figurines of pigeons, crows, magpies, wading birds, eagles, storks bring misfortune.

Elephant figurine with its trunk up (trumpeting) - brings good luck to the house and helps defeat ill-wishers, and the elephant trunk down (sleeping)- brings despondency, melancholy, depression, frequent heavy thoughts, stress into the house.

Sculpture of a dog or lion sitting on its hind legs and with its mouth open, brings misfortune, as it attracts evil spirits to itself, while simultaneously depriving a person of intuition.

Gifts that were not to your liking will bring misfortune if you do not get rid of them, as they were presented with bad feelings or with a slander.

Paintings, prints depicting something uncomfortable to look at disrupt peace of mind, interfere with spiritual development, and weaken memory.

Any image of fish makes you vulnerable to damage and the evil eye, and also attracts thieves to the house.

Seashells, which many people like to bring as souvenirs from the south, unfortunately, also bring misfortune, as they lead to a deterioration in the functioning of blood vessels and the heart.

Animal horns can cause the loss of a loved one or separation from him, provoke illness and mental trauma.

Plaster figures and figurines are bad because that interfere with concentration on the most important thing, distract from pressing matters, weaken the will, and lead a person into the world of illusions.

Dishes with chips and cracks lose their energetic integrity and, accordingly, disrupts the energy of food, either reducing its energy value or making it completely negative. Eating or drinking from such containers will only harm yourself.

Knives left on the table overnight accumulate negative energy and attract all kinds of evil spirits, which, receiving energy recharge from this knife, remain in the house for a long time, disturbing the sleep, peace and comfort of household members. In addition, this knife becomes dangerous because it makes it easier for them to inflict sudden and unexpected cuts on themselves. Knives with broken or chipped blades have the same properties. There is no need to try to put them in order, but should secretly bury them in the ground.

Old, worn-out slippers or other worn-out shoes they need to be thrown away and not put in cabinets and shoe boxes, as they attract damage, the evil eye and slander to their owner.

Small salt shakers, from which salt often spills out, and besides, it accumulates on the sides all the time - also an undesirable thing in the house. They tend to provoke quarrels, intrigues, squabbles and even scandals with fights, and attract evil gossip.

Chinese lanterns- are by no means the best element of room decor, as they cause sudden, unreasonable fears and melancholy.

Broom in the house always symbolizes money, but there are some nuances here. Using an old, worn out broom means ruin or long-term lack of money. Keeping an old broom in the house means incurring losses through illness. Sweeping the floor in the evening, according to the sign, means sweeping money out of the house - there will be no wealth. Therefore, from time immemorial, floors were swept in the first half of the day.

Living plants whose stems twine around the walls(except grapes) have property of attracting to the owners of the house various diseases.

Things that are good

Household items with folk painting(Zhostovo, Palekh, Khokhloma, Gzhel, etc.) have a beneficial effect on the nervous system and improve mood. This is explained by the fact that each drawing on them is a magical symbol or sign that came from time immemorial, serving as a talisman of health, a talisman of wisdom, intuition and prosperity (i.e., it helps you find them).

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A matryoshka doll with an even number of figures is a talisman for money, prosperity, helps to avoid bankruptcy, and also maintains existing well-being and health. With an odd number of figures - protects against a bad uninvited guest, the evil eye, illness and family quarrels.

Cushions embroidered with flowers in warm colors are a talisman of marital love, cold colors - develop the gift of anticipation of failure, embroidery with images of flowers - protects against separation from a loved one, embroidered ornament - protects from sudden danger, embroidery with images of people, landscapes, buildings - helps to maintain success in various business endeavors.

Cured fur skin, According to a long-standing belief, it promotes successful trading, increasing capital, and also protects previously acquired property.

Ficus creates a positive aura around itself, helps to concentrate, calm down after stress, extinguish nervousness, and normalizes the energy in the house. To restore physical and mental health, sit in the evening for half an hour near a ficus, holding its leaf between your palms and closing your eyes, mentally tell it about your failures, and it will help you get rid of negative thoughts and emotions.

A figurine of a bear, placed in a prominent place, protects the house from evil spirits and evil spells, is a talisman of the family hearth, and also stores monetary wealth in the house. She should be alternately in the room and in the kitchen.

Ears of wheat, rye, oats placed in a vase(they can even be artificial) always contribute only to well-being, wealth, health, comfort and peace in the home. They perfectly neutralize currents of negative energy. Therefore, during the period from December 25 to January 6, it is recommended to constantly keep a vase of cookies, bagels, crackers, and bread rolls on the table, as this will ensure profitable financial agreements on these days, receiving a large sum of money, and possibly news of an inheritance or will.

A strong amulet against the evil eye and damage is icon with the name Seven Shots. Located opposite the front door, it will not only protect you from the evil eye and guests with bad intentions, but will also prevent them from even approaching your doors. With her appearance in the house, there are fewer scandals and conflicts, slander and anger that can arise due to trifles.

Are you involved in "preventing Alzheimer's disease"? Let me expand - it is believed that the brain needs to be constantly trained, that is, “reading, watching exhibitions/films/series/plays” - this does not count, you need to give the brain “tasks”. So, survey: are you training your brain now and how? Are you going to train in old age, at what age and how?

How to avoid divorce and improve your relationship with your husband

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I agree, everything is like that for me) my husband and I haven’t gotten to this point yet, but I notice a lot about myself that is described above. The husband, of course, is not an angel either, but whichever of us is an angel, let him live in heaven. I appreciate the article, I will try to correct mistakes)

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Inspired by: I learned a lot of new and interesting things about the wedding dress below:), I especially liked that “you can’t have a suit - you’ll have a double life” (and it’s unknown what that meant:) Do you believe in omens? In which? I myself don’t believe in omens, I think it’s obscurantism. We celebrated my husband’s 40th birthday, my daughter’s birthday falls during the summer holidays - we regularly celebrate in advance (a month in advance)... I regularly return from the road (and nothing happens). Perhaps the only remnant...

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I try not to put pillows on the table: my grandmother, an atheist and materialist, who was also more than skeptical about all signs and superstitions, was afraid of this sign herself and passed it on to me (you can’t put pillows on the table - someone will die, well, in the sense of one of her own) . In our country, no one knows how to whistle except me, I somehow don’t feel comfortable at home, and I can’t whistle at home, but I still don’t have any money.

I collect good signs and ignore the bad ones.

We sow, we weed, we sow, Happy New Year!

We sow, we weed, we sow, Happy New Year! Even though the New Year is “old,” it still brings goodness! In the old fashioned way, we wish fertility for a cattle, a warm shelter for a little dog, a saucer of milk for a kitten, a handful of wheat for a cockerel, a red girl for a friend, small children for mom and dad, and small grandchildren for a grandmother! We sow, we weed, we sow, Happy New Year! Open the chest, take out the penny! :))) On the night of January 13-14, Russians celebrate the Old New Year - a holiday incomprehensible to many...

The child was inspired by the idea, of course not to grow spikelets, but at least to germinate them. If so, where can you buy the seeds, and how and where do you use it later? It’s really interesting, please share your experience. Thank you

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The seeds were taken from Auchan, in the health products section. That's what it was called - wheat for germination. They grew both wheat and oats for cats. Quite tasty and a lot of thanks))) We didn’t live to see the spikelets, of course. As a rule, they rot later.

It's very fun to germinate cacti.
"So small, but already a cactus"
Or simpler - asparagus.
I sprouted about 15 years ago, asparagus is still growing.
Seeds are sold in stores everywhere.

Signs of the onset of labor: false contractions, prolapse of the abdomen and other changes in the body

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If I were you, I would call an ambulance, or go to the hospital myself.

01/05/2019 13:52:13, 201z

Hello. Tell me 33 weeks according to ultrasound, 36 according to menstruation.
The stomach becomes hard in the evening and tingles a little at the bottom. In the morning, sometimes I have an unpleasant feeling, like before my period (my stomach doesn’t hurt, but it’s tight and my back aches)... I run to the toilet very often.... How should I react to this?)

I just read: “if you are tormented by the problem of excess weight, embroider a lady in a hat!” :))) don’t run 100 thousand kilometers in six months, don’t eat less at night, and embroider a lady in a hat. I don’t know about you, but I went to pick out a design for myself :)))

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Well, everything is correct. You can sit at the computer and eat, you can read a book and eat, but embroidering and eating doesn’t work (I’m embarrassed, but I tried). As a result, you lose weight.

Oh I don't know. Maybe I should embroider it in the evenings instead of dinner :-)
Although I have in my bins a rider from Riolis in a hat. But now I’m already in the process of embroidering on black canvas, and I can’t handle 2 parallel stitches on black. So for now I’ll just struggle with the kilograms, and later I’ll figure out the lady in the hat.

There was a glazed balcony and a small crack. It flew in, jumped and flew away... I was upset for some reason:-(Not that I’m very superstitious, but suspicious:-(((

My husband and I found a pigeon on the balcony. We have a balcony on our floor, like a street one. We live on the 14th floor. From this balcony there is a door to a public air gate, a fire station, or what is it called? They went out to smoke, and there was a dove at the door, so beautiful, snow-white. We decided that he was cold, we opened the door for him and let him into the stairs, it was warmer there. An hour later they came out again, and he was sitting in the same place. The husband took him closer to the radiator and crumbled some bread for him. At first I thought I was cold. And now I think maybe...

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no, it's fine! That's when a pigeon's foot or wing hits the eye while flying, like I did this Friday :)), that's bad, yes!))) It results in a bruise :). That's what I tell everyone I know - the pigeon hit me!! :)). People laugh)) This is the first time this kind of trouble has happened to me, although I don’t know, maybe he’s having a hard time now too - his leg and wings hurt! And all because of me :))))...

a dove is a bird!

This morning, while we were sleeping, a titmouse flew into the window in the kitchen. It flew across the entire apartment and began hitting the window in the large room. Woke up and let him out. Now there’s such a panic, I buried my mother in August, and now this. It seems like I’m not particularly superstitious, but in the morning I’m already hysterical. The streak is not black, but some kind of continuous darkness, lawsuits over the apartment, my husband almost lost his job. There is still a trial pending in my mother’s case. There has never been such a terrible period.

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Listen, we had the same thing! My father-in-law died, two weeks later a tit flew in, sat on my daughter (!), flew and flew out on its own. And my mother-in-law says that from time to time a tit hits the window.

don't care. Hummingbirds always fly into my living room across the terrace a couple of times a year. I'm throwing a net away from the pool :) everyone is alive and well :)

The curious site “15 Gifts” (in English) asks you to indicate the age, gender, habits of the person (or those) for whom you are looking for a gift - and gives a list of 15 things. It is not at all necessary to buy these particular things, but you can spot an interesting idea. For the home, for everyday life In Rus', wedding gifts symbolized wealth (furs, brocade, silk, feather beds and pillows, large bowls and goblets made of silver), as well as fertility and healthy offspring - for this purpose they gave domestic animals (chickens, ducks, piglets) , the number of which had to be a multiple of 10. Each guest was presented with a small wicker basket containing hard-boiled chicken eggs, symbolizing fertility in many cultures. Of course, now for a wedding with boiled eggs and piglets...
...If this is not possible, a gift certificate for a good hardware store or interior salon can be a lifesaver. Paired sets - glasses, plates, figurines, decorations - are of particular importance - they personify the unity between spouses. When purchasing a wedding gift, remember that giving some things is considered a bad omen. So before you go shopping, make sure the bride and groom aren't superstitious - or refrain from buying a gift that could be misinterpreted. What household items should not be given as a gift for a wedding? Knives, forks and spoons (bring quarrels and resentments into the house) Wrist and wall clocks (towards a quick separation of lovers) Mirrors...

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You know, I don’t know what to give my parents for their wedding anniversary. It’s not written here what to give for the 19th anniversary. Well, it’s kind of strange. You can’t give me money - they are my parents after all, I’ve already made a lot of things with my own hands (it’s called both at my house and at my parents’, my crafts:
1) in cabinets
2) on cabinets
3)under the beds
4)under cabinets
5)under tables
6) on tables
7)under chairs
Etc.
And the bed linen is not comfortable - and so all the cabinets are full, the same with the dishes. You can't give a horseshoe. Well, okay, give mom flowers - and that’s it, but with dad we always had problems - what to give?...

04.01.2019 00:57:35, Ekaterina Dadiani

02/22/2018 21:29:16, Krylovs

The organization left and there were peacock feathers left... My daughter wants to go home, but I heard somewhere that this is a bad omen. Now I'm sitting, thinking what to do...

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The sign is the same as with reeds - understandable, if the reeds standing in a vase are torn apart, dried out, etc., then it will fluff up the whole apartment, and feathers, in general, can also fluff up in large quantities.... no problem for allergy sufferers))). That's all)))))))))))))))))

The sign about feathers (of any kind) appeared due to the fact that very often birds, especially in the wild, are carriers of infectious diseases. That's all, nothing more.

You can also opt for a set of small towels for guests. Or a beautiful porcelain set: after all, everyone knows that there can never be too many dishes in the house. Although, if the owners recently celebrated their wedding, be careful: they could have been given more than enough dishes and linen. Then your gift will be completely inappropriate. If you believe the signs, every house should have a “master” who protects the home from everything bad. So you can give a straw souvenir in the form of a little brownie. It will provide peace and tranquility to this home. And finally, I would like to say that buying and arranging housing is a colossal work that requires enormous material and enormous moral costs. Therefore, having crossed the threshold of his friends’ newly acquired apartment...

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...Show the “umbrella” inflorescence (dill, celandine, primrose) and ask them to guess why it is called that. You can tell that the main axis of the “umbrella” is greatly shortened, and the flowers are located on developed pedicels of the same length (like the spokes of a real umbrella). In clover, the pedicels are poorly developed, and such an inflorescence is called a head. Consider the complex inflorescences of forget-me-not, St. John's wort, lilac, elderberry, milkweed, string, and buttercups; you can also show complex ears of wheat and rye. Ask what names the child himself could give to these inflorescences. Let him dream up! Teach your child to see and appreciate beauty from an early age, ask him to find the most beautiful flower in the garden. Kids are naturally inquisitive and are able to quickly and easily grasp and remember information, and therefore it is better not to put their questions on hold. He...

I’ve never bothered with signs, but now I somehow feel uneasy:(. I was in the kitchen when I heard cooing in the room. I arrived and a red pigeon was walking around the room a meter from the balcony door. He was not afraid of me, calmly turned around and went out onto the balcony. I brought him some bread there too. He doesn’t eat, but sits calmly, turning towards the room. I closed the door, but I somehow feel uneasy in my soul. The balcony is glazed, one frame has been removed for the summer. I’m afraid to scare him, lest he start fighting in glass. Now I have to hang my clothes there...

Girls, I don’t even know where to go - I need ears of rye or wheat. Where can I even look for them? I can’t even imagine where to go to search:-(Right at least digging out from under the snow in the fields:-P

Girls, I’m not superstitious by any means, but last night our mirror fell, which had been hanging for 6 years glued to the chipboard and didn’t break, at night. I don’t think I believe it, but three friends have already said that this is some kind of sign, but what? If it didn't crash. Tell me, I want to know what the mirror is silent about)))))

Tell me where to buy wheat. Which chain supermarket has it?

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In fact, I mean kutya, which is usually prepared as one of the 12 dishes on Christmas Eve, and not a funeral dish. Wheat is boiled and seasoned with honey, poppy seeds, nuts, halva, etc.

But is wheat really needed there? a funeral dish like rice, raisins...

Spring... The most important event in life is ahead, as it seemed to me then - a wedding.
...I never danced on it, but I dreamed about it. I was very upset, but now I understand, looking at my son, how insignificant all this is compared to the happiness of being a mother. Maybe this is a coincidence, maybe not - on March 24 I found out about pregnancy and on November 24 I gave birth to a son. Moreover, in the Year of the Ox, my husband and I are also, by the way, “bulls”. This is the kind of family we have now. Maybe we should believe in omens? They prophesied to me. Thank you! zlata007, [email protected]...

I understand that this is not on the topic of the conference, but I need it: (The child said that they were needed for school. This is normal when the wheat was harvested on August 30: (And the most offensive thing is that in the summer we drove past so many fields and could have picked them even in Europe: (Well, where should I look for this happiness now?

It's blooming for the second time, but I didn't notice the first time, I saw it when the flower dried up, and now it's healthy again!!! Hasn't bloomed yet, but there will be small white flowers

The fact that your family will have a daughter is indicated by swelling and deterioration in appearance (“the girl takes away her mother’s beauty”), a rounded belly, wide, protruding to the sides, and a desire to consume various sweets in large quantities. As a rule, all of the signs listed do not have a scientific basis. Scientists have not identified any relationship between the gender of the unborn child and the shape of the abdomen, dietary preferences and appearance of the expectant mother. The shape of a pregnant belly depends only on the condition of the abdominal muscles and skin of the woman, the number of previous pregnancies and births, since the muscles supporting the uterus and the abdominal muscles, as a rule,...
...Of course, furry felines have no effect on the number of friends and enemies of a child, but this warning is very reasonable. Cats are sources of toxoplasma - microorganisms that are very dangerous during pregnancy, causing toxoplasmosis and leading to severe malformations of the fetus. Therefore, it is advisable to limit contact with a cat, especially if you have never had a cat at home before, during pregnancy, it is advisable to limit your hands thoroughly, and entrust the cleaning of the cat litter to one of the family members or to do it with gloves (Toxoplasma is released into the external environment with cat feces). A pregnant woman should not hang out her laundry. According to gynecologists, short-term raising of arms, for example, while hanging laundry or performing physical...

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Oh, two things bothered me - raising my hands and dyeing my hair. It ended with my husband starting to hang up the underwear ^^ and with hair it’s more difficult, I’ve been dyeing my hair red all my life =/ and I absolutely didn’t want to look ugly when I was pregnant. Sisters, smart girls))), found me a special IHC hair clinic as a gift, where, in addition, you can dye with ammonia-free special dye, which is not harmful to either mother or baby. So I did this therapeutic coloring there, at the same time I checked my hair, asked for advice on care so that they wouldn’t bother me during breastfeeding, in short, I went with benefit)
So, future mothers, if you are really annoyed by your family and friends with their superstitious fears, you can turn everything to your benefit

03.02.2010 17:00:01, Tane4ka

I read the article! I support the author. I would like to add that another superstition was not touched upon - not to buy any things for the unborn baby. I personally convinced myself that this is not true! I bought things from the very beginning of pregnancy, and all 9 months, and the birth went well, and the child is completely healthy!!! I want all expectant mothers to stop believing in superstitions! Be confident in yourself and everything will go well for you!!! Good luck to all!

Pregnancy imposes significant restrictions on a woman’s lifestyle. Most of them are related to the need to eat right, spend more time in the fresh air, not overwork, etc. All these recommendations can be found in any book on pregnancy, and they are really important and reasonable.
...During pregnancy, do not go near the cat litter: it is through the feces of cats that Toxoplasma enters the external environment, so transfer such concerns to the household. As a last resort, use rubber gloves. If the cat has been living at home for a long time and you have been interacting with it for a long time, there should be no fears, since only primary infection during pregnancy poses a danger to the expectant mother. A pregnant woman should not sit on the threshold. Our ancestors perceived the threshold as the line between their own and someone else's world, and it was precisely on the line of transition that it was most difficult to protect yourself from evil forces. But sitting on the threshold is really undesirable: drafts are simply unacceptable during the waiting period...

A button as a fashion decoration. History of origin, role in the modern world of fashion. Signs and interesting psychology facts related to buttons.

How to manage everything with a baby in your arms.

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Well, it’s good that no one bothers you! :)

Of course, it’s very difficult with a newborn in your arms alone. I went through everything myself. My grandparents were far away, my husband was constantly at work, because I had to earn money, so I had to do almost everything myself. The main thing is that the child is healthy, and everything else is wrong scary. You definitely need a daily routine. When the child eats, walks, and sleeps at the same time (at least around the same time), it will be easier to distribute his time. I have three children, but the age difference is decent. There are 4 years between the first and second , and the second and third are 8 years old. The first child, it seems to me, is the most difficult, and when you already have experience, then it’s easier.

Geranium makes people kinder and more tolerant of each other. Its aroma strengthens the nervous system and helps get rid of depression. If you place a pot of geranium in a room where a geopathogenic zone is located, the plant will neutralize all its harmful effects. But our houses are often located in places that are not very favorable for humans. So geranium on the window will be useful to many. Geranium can also help in love - for this you need to give geranium with scarlet flowers to the object of your tender passion. In order for the lover (or beloved) to reciprocate, the geranium must remain in the house. Geranium can grow not only in a room, but also in a garden or park. There is only an eye...

When the wind subsides, the cherry-colored Telpos Mountain is pacified by a ruddy light. The cloud sitting on the Zyryansk Olympus takes the form of a huge head supported by hands, with elbows resting on the slopes.
...The twisted talons of a white-tailed eagle protruded from her back. The robber himself rotted. Apparently, he grabbed the fish, but did not calculate the strength. And the claws are designed in such a way that they do not unclench during hunting. So the robber went into the depths with the salmon. There are now three houses in Orlovka. Two darkened ones, repaired and repaired, and one fresh. It is being built here for tourists by the national park. I comfortably settle down in the park area, and Ivan Anufrievich and Zhenya spend the night in the back. There is silence all around. The taiga has calmed down in autumn anesthesia. They say that to this day, somewhere in the inaccessible wilds, in the hidden depths of forests, bearded men in worn-out robes that have lost their original color live and pray to God. This is old...

My previous pregnancies were not easy for me, after 3 miscarriages I was completely desperate, and my common-law husband ran away. When at 31 you are left alone, completely alone, you can go crazy. At work, the girl was going on maternity leave, and I, looking down, asked: “Can I touch your belly?” I touched it. Some time after this, while walking the dog in the evening, I looked up at the sky and saw a shooting star. “I want to become a mother,” I said in a low voice. Then m...

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Much happiness to you and your daughter! Believe that everything will be fine with you! And you will definitely have a daddy, the best one in the world! Just believe it! It is most important!

Happiness to you and your baby, and your son and daughter definitely need a dad.

04/17/2008 15:04:58, Zhanna

Believe in miracles! Did you know that in 2007 Kuban celebrates glorious anniversaries: the 215th anniversary of the development of Kuban lands by the Cossacks and the 70th anniversary of the formation of the Krasnodar Territory? Then go ahead!
...There is no land sweeter than our Kuban, the eternally young daughter of the steppe expanse. Our southern sky is like a blue girl's gaze. At the head of Kuban lie the Caucasus Mountains, and a sea wave splashes at its feet. Ears of wheat sway in the wind. The poplar candles are straight into the sky and quietly whisper their song. Our flowering land is amazingly beautiful! And it is not without reason that the amazing combination of endless steppes, mountain forests, mountains covered with snow, and warm seas allowed the Kuban city of Sochi to win the right to host the Winter Olympics in 2014. Russia’s favorite daughter deserves it. The star is the personification of Russia on the international stage. Red ribbon o...

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Bol "shoe spasibo. Ochen" poznavatel"no, dinamichno, interesno. Primenila na uroke istorii dlya russkoyazichnix detey v Americe (Florida).

13.11.2007 20:40:02, Natalia 06.11.2007 14:53:13, Lilia

Here is the “Almost Ideal” design, which has the known properties of increasing the families of embroiderers :-) Is there, by chance, such a magical design, the embroidery of which would help solve the housing problem :-)?

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My parents wanted to build a second floor in their dacha for 20 years, but things didn’t work out and various obstacles arose. The family is getting together, but there is no place for everyone to sleep! And last year I embroidered Lamplight Bridge from Thomas Kinkade. The second floor grew in two weeks! All our neighbors were shocked that they built it so quickly! You just need to channel your desire into an image and act!
I believe in the “Almost Perfect” design and am waiting...

Here it is, this house that “helps” :))

Just let me tell you the whole story first. This set was bought by Lana-Ezhechka in St. Petersburg. I quickly embroidered it and showed it off at the conference. My husband saw the photo; he’s actually quite relaxed about embroidery. This design caught his attention and he really asked me to get the pattern and embroider it. I really liked the house too, so I plucked up the nerve and agreed with Lana about an exchange. In mid-October, I had the rest of the kit, and I immediately started embroidering, of course :)) I sewed each cross with pleasure, it’s true, not a single job went so happily! I embroidered it, immediately dressed it in a baguette (which doesn’t happen with every embroidery I do), and boasted...
And at the same time, we were busy exchanging my husband’s apartment from one district to another, so that his mother could be moved closer to us. They themselves lived in my one-room apartment. They tried to change for probably 5 years, but somehow it didn’t work out. And then it all worked out! Yes, quite fortunately, we came across a freshly renovated, clean apartment, in a quiet courtyard, a block from mine... And there were buyers for my husband’s apartment, and the chain did not fall apart, as often happens. We moved my mother-in-law into a one-room apartment and moved into a two-room apartment ourselves. Everyone is fine, everyone is happy.
And in St. Petersburg, meanwhile, Lana and her husband worked, worked, worked and earned themselves an apartment. It seems like we moved into our new homes almost at the same time :))
That’s when they put it all together here, on Marya, and the legend was born that Everet Cottage helps solve the housing problem :))
I am a moderately superstitious person, I don’t forget to look in the mirror if I had to come back halfway;)) but here... In short, decide for yourself whether this house will help you :)))
In any case - good luck!

Here's another question. They say that you should not put peacock feathers in a vase or keep them in your home. And why? and then is it possible to keep crafts made from them in the house? I'm talking about that mask with feathers.

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Hmm... this is the first time I've heard about Feng Shui and peacock feathers! What connection? The fact that it is better to throw away dried flowers as soon as possible is for sure, but what about feathers? If I'm not mistaken, in some books on Feng Shui it is written that in the south (the place of the phoenix) you can place a beautiful vase with peacock feathers...
In general, Feng Shui IMHO is not blind faith in a mixture of European and Chinese prejudices.

and also grow ivy, embroider on weekends, and so on....
Either you believe (and don’t ask, but follow the made-up rules)...
Or you don’t believe it, then why ask?
those. all this is your personal choice...

09.06.2004 15:31:25

Only prices can be found several times lower

Are “belief in the evil eye and corruption” and “faith in God” compatible? What is the attitude of the Orthodox Church towards superstition? Here is a dialogue between visitors to the conference “Child from 1 to 3” on the website 7ya.ru
...God is wise and merciful, the devil is cunning and cunning. Yes, many signs come true, fortune telling comes true. But the Lord warned us: “Let it be done to you according to your faith.” What you believe in will lead you along the path of life, and that is what will guide you in life. It is obvious. If faith has descended to superstition, then the Lord leaves the superstition and he becomes a weak-willed slave of the devil and his passions (sometimes, in order to get rid of such slavery, obsession, when the demon takes possession of a person of little faith, one has to use reprimands...

My dear girl, you are a real princess. Small yet, but very beautiful. Let's play. Our first game is for your royal hands. This is a very interesting, very old game. I remember my mom and I playing it when I was a kid.
...So, now we make braids - these are spikelets of ordinary green grass, a dress from flowers - pansies, a cloak - from coltsfoot, etc. At the dacha, where we grow dahlias, peonies, calendula, cherries, and apple trees, you can imagine so much! In autumn - these are dried flowers, bright leaves of trees, rowan fruits, ears of wheat, cones. Do you want us to compete with you to see who can make the most original little man? We bet that here in the park you can make it only from sticks and falling leaves? And the russula hats will be luxurious hats! Look how beautiful it is, we’ll come home and we can draw them. This is our second creative imagination game. And when you become an adult...

Signs about children. Bathing newborns. You can’t finish your child’s half-eaten bread - eat up his health. In order for the child to grow up healthy and have healthy teeth, the spouses should be given silver spoons when the child begins to cut his teeth. You can’t sit a child on the table; he will cry a lot for no reason. When a child is sleeping, do not look at him, he will be scared. They don't kiss babies on the cheek, otherwise the teeth won't show for a long time. They also don’t kiss babies’ soles - it’s too late. They don't look good with him until they're a year old...

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I don't like all these signs. I didn’t follow anything during pregnancy, and now too. Well, I like to kiss Zhenya’s heels :)))). And on the cheeks :)). There are, of course, signs that have simply become a good tradition - giving, for example, a silver spoon when the first tooth erupts. This seems normal to me. And any heresy, in my opinion, only clogs your brain, so you will look around every minute, like - “oh, is this like - maybe a bad omen?” :)). I don't think it's worth bothering with.

09/15/2015 11:03:03, Markeseva

you don’t have to believe in any signs, we prepared things beforehand, I got my hair cut and started renovating the house shortly before giving birth, it’s not like I raised my arms high, climbed the stairs, puttyed the ceilings, and glued the wallpaper. What’s inevitable is my fame God, the children are fine, despite all the signs

near the metro, an old woman was selling an amazingly beautiful meter-tall fern. but I passed by. however, the plant still couldn’t get out of my head. I came back and talked to the old lady, and it turned out to be a garden fern. what a pity! however, I couldn’t help but buy it. girls, what should we do with him now? Can I plant in a pot at home? or is it better in the yard? PS: I'm afraid that my mother will say that you can't keep ferns at home - it's a bad omen. although I have one living (the “home” form).

When planning or expecting a baby, some parents really want the new family member to be a boy or a girl. Is it possible to influence the gender of the baby?
...For example, there is an opinion that you can find out the sex of the baby by the shape of the mother’s belly. This is not true, and here's why. If the bony pelvis of the expectant mother is narrow, then the growing uterus will move forward, towards the pliable anterior wall of the abdomen, and it will be pointed. In this case, there may be a girl inside the uterus. There are, however, two signs that even according to doctors, you can completely rely on. Usually, mothers of girls change in appearance during pregnancy: the face becomes puffy, cheekbones and nose enlarge, and pigment spots appear. The little coquette already in the womb lays claim to her mother’s female hormones. Boys, as a rule, are not interested in such trifles, and the expectant mother is getting prettier every day. It has been noticed that mothers of girls feel sick...

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my mother has two crowns - one marriage, I have two, my son has two

My husband has 2 crowns and he believed all his life that there would be 2 marriages. So, I am the second wife, and we had a daughter with two crowns)))). So what, I have one crown, but I’m married for the second time. I'll tell you, self-hypnosis is a very powerful thing. So just think that your husband is just a happy and lucky person. And that a huge number of people with the same crown get married 2,3,10 times??

27.04.2016 19:26:58, Katyusha, Polina and Varyusha

All magical traditions treat grain with respect. And this came from the past, when people were heavily dependent on nature and the harvest. Now we can go to the supermarket and buy vegetables and fruits from different countries at any time, but people of the past were deprived of this opportunity. The use of grains in magic was due to survival, and not just someone's amusement.

Despite the fact that the world has changed, the relevance of using grain in magical practice has not faded away, but has passed through the centuries and even transformed. Yes, magic evolves, but its foundation remains unchanged.

Symbolism of grain

Plant grains contain enormous power, which allows them to be preserved for a long time, up to several years, and when the conditions are right - to revive, grow, develop and give new life. Grain is a symbol of life itself.

Grain is a kind of matrix of life. It must “die”, falling into the ground, and be reborn, giving new life in a new quality. The symbol of dying and further rebirth permeates the myths of all peoples of the world and religious teachings.

Grain is a symbol of fertility, wealth and prosperity. There is still such a ritual for newlyweds when they are sprinkled with grains so that their family has prosperity. In different cultures, wheat, rye, rice, etc. are used for this. Although not all grains are suitable for this, for example, millet in Russia in the old days was used only for a ritual in a cemetery: the grain was scattered on the grave so that birds would peck it, thereby making the path of the deceased easier in the afterlife.

The list of conspiracies and rituals using grain is very rich. Rituals with grain can help both attract wealth, health, success, harmony in the family, and deprive all of this using the same grain. One of the most common sources of spoilage is grain. Ultimately it is up to you how you use this power.

The Celts have a festival of the first harvest - Lammas (Lughnasadh), which is celebrated in the first days of August. On these days, ritual bread was baked and offerings were made to the gods in order to collect and preserve the harvest.

The Central American Indians (Aztecs) have a god, Quetzalcoatl, who gave the people corn so they could live off it. There is even a separate deity Chicomecoatl or the Goddess of Corn (Mais), who was depicted with a head made of corn; later she began to be called the goddess of fertility.

Often, it was not the grain itself that was brought as a gift to the gods, but bread baked from it (if you want to learn how to make such bread, read the article “Nut Bread”). The Sumerians baked 30 flat cakes every day for gods such as Ishtar, Marduk and Shamash. And in Egypt they baked bread for Amun, Ra, Nekhber and Ptah. In Ancient Greece, bread was also baked as a gift for Dementra, the goddess of grain, bread and agriculture. The Phoenicians baked bread with horns, a symbol of the god Astarte, to give it divine qualities.

There are a large number of rituals, both the simplest ones that are accessible to ordinary people, and those that only experienced magicians can perform. Let's look at a few rituals using grains.

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Materials: For this ritual you will need fresh ripe grains of wheat, a ceramic saucer without drawings and 3 coins of different denominations. It is advisable that these coins be modern and not antique, because you do not want to attract money that has not been in circulation for a long time.

Time: The right time for this is dawn on the waxing moon on Wednesday or Thursday.

Progress of the ritual:

Put 3 coins, place a saucer on top of them, and pour a grain of wheat on the saucer. Place several layers of gauze or other natural fabric on top of the grains. Then pour warm water over them and say the spell:

Mother Earth, you feed both the young and the old, the poor and the rich. You fill us all with your strength, and Father Sun warms us with his warmth. From the grain you give ten, fifteen, and twenty. Let me, (state your name), give birth to money, like this wheat.

As she grows day and night, gaining strength, so let my money grow and feed me in the most favorable way. Let it be so and so it is! True!

Then, every day at dawn, water these grains a little at the same time. Then, by the nature of the seedlings, you can judge the presence of negativity. If all the grains germinate at the same time, then this is a good sign, but if very few grains sprouted and not evenly, then it is worth going through a cleansing ritual to remove the negativity that interferes with the implementation of your plans.

After the seeds germinate, carefully transplant them into a separate pot or outside if it is spring or summer. Coins should be put in your wallet. They will be a talisman for you (so you shouldn’t pay with them). If necessary, you can perform a similar ritual using the same coins.

Getting rid of diseases

The seed contains life, just like the egg of birds. This is why eggs are often used in cleansing rituals. There is an equally effective way to get rid of diseases using grain.

Materials and time: For this ritual it is necessary to sew a bag of black cloth and fill it with wheat grains. It is better to carry out this ritual on the waning moon on Saturday.

Progress of the ritual:

Light a black magic candle or an ordinary church candle. Conduct your own meditation on connecting with the Earth, imagining how roots grow from your feet, which reach the center of the Earth and energy rises through them. When you are ready, take the bag in your hands, lean it against the sore spot and say the following words:

The progenitor, Mother Earth, is the one who gives life to everyone on this earth. Help me heal from my illness... (name the illness). Take this disease, let it go back where it came from. Fill me with your strength. Let it be so and so it is! True!

At the same time, imagine how your illness goes into a bag of grain, and the sore spot is filled with the healing power of the earth. Once you are ready, thank the Goddess for her help. Ask her how you can thank her in the real world.

As the birds peck these grains, so my illness goes away... (name of the illness). Let it be so and so it is! True!

Depending on the severity of the disease, this ritual must be repeated until you recover.

Amulet for home made of wheat

This is a powerful amulet that will attract prosperity and create peace in the home.

Materials and time: the time of year is the harvest from July to September, so don't miss out. On the waxing moon, collect a bouquet of 12 ears of wheat; ears of other plants will also do. Tie them with a green or gold silk ribbon.

Progress of the ritual:

Conduct a meditation right on the field and turn to the Ancestress with a request to endow this bouquet with your power, and also bring gifts to the Goddess (for this you can use milk or honey).

When you arrive home, walk around the inside of the house clockwise, starting and ending with the front door. Then place this bouquet in a visible place, watch the bouquet carefully so that it does not gather dust or break. After a year, you should burn the old bouquet and make a new one.

What are the things in your house, enemies or friends?

They're inviting trouble

1. Figurines of pigeons, crows, magpies, wading birds, eagles, and storks bring bad luck.

2. A figurine of an elephant with its trunk up (trumpeting) - brings good luck to the house and helps to defeat ill-wishers, and an elephant with its trunk down (sleeping) - brings despondency, melancholy, depression, frequent heavy thoughts, stress to the house.

3. A sculpture of a dog or lion, sitting on its hind legs and with its mouth open, brings misfortune, as it attracts evil spirits, while simultaneously depriving a person of intuition.

4. Gifts that are not to your liking will bring misfortune if you do not get rid of them, as they were given with bad feelings or a slander.

5. Paintings and prints depicting something uncomfortable for the eye disturb peace of mind, interfere with spiritual improvement, and weaken memory.

6. Any image of fish makes you vulnerable to damage and the evil eye, and also attracts thieves to your house.

7. Seashells, which many people like to bring as souvenirs from the south, unfortunately, also bring misfortune, as they lead to a deterioration in the functioning of blood vessels and the heart.

8. Animal horns can cause the loss of a loved one or separation from him, provoke illness and mental trauma.

9. Plaster figures and figurines are bad because they interfere with concentration on the most important thing, distract from pressing matters, weaken the will, and lead a person into the world of illusions.

10. Dishes with chips and cracks lose their energetic integrity and, accordingly, disrupt the energy of food, either reducing its energy value or making it completely negative. Eating or drinking from such containers will only harm yourself.

11. Knives left on the table overnight accumulate negative energy and attract all sorts of evil spirits, which, receiving energy from this knife, remain in the house for a long time, disturbing the sleep, peace and comfort of household members. In addition, this knife becomes dangerous because it makes it easier for them to inflict sudden and unexpected cuts on themselves. Knives with broken or chipped blades have the same properties. There is no need to try to put them in order, but should secretly bury them in the ground.

12. Old worn-out slippers or other shabby shoes) should be thrown away and not put in cabinets and shoe boxes, as they attract damage, the evil eye and slander to their owner.

13. Small salt shakers, from which salt often spills out, and in which it also accumulates on the sides all the time, are also an undesirable thing in the house. They tend to provoke quarrels, intrigues, squabbles and even scandals with fights, and attract evil gossip.

13. Chinese lanterns are by no means the best element of room decor, as they cause sudden, unreasonable fears and melancholy.

14. A broom in the house always symbolizes money, but there are some nuances here. Using an old, worn out broom means ruin or long-term lack of money

Keeping an old broom in the house means incurring losses through illness. Sweeping the floor in the evening, according to the sign, means sweeping money out of the house - there will be no wealth. Therefore, from time immemorial, floors were swept in the first half of the day.

15. Living plants, the stems of which twine around the walls (except for grapes), have the property of attracting various diseases to the owners of the house.

16. Flowers in the house:

Wax flowers - to the death of a relative

Reeds in the house are especially dangerous. It is not yet clear why, but they often portend a long, serious illness with a fatal outcome.

Suddenly dried fresh flowers mean separation from a loved one, as well as divorce.

They bring good

1. Household items with folk painting (Zhostovo, Palekh, Khokhloma, Gzhel, etc.) have a beneficial effect on the nervous system and lift your spirits. This is explained by the fact that each drawing on them is a magical symbol or sign that came from time immemorial, serving as a talisman of health, a talisman of wisdom, intuition and prosperity (i.e., it helps you find them).

2. A matryoshka doll with an even number of figures is a talisman for money, prosperity, helps to avoid bankruptcy, and also preserves existing well-being and health. With an odd number of figures - protects against a bad uninvited guest, the evil eye, illness and family quarrels.

3. Sofa cushions embroidered with flowers in warm tones are a talisman of marital love, cold colors - develop the gift of foreboding of failure, embroidery with flowers - protects against separation from a loved one, embroidered ornament - protects from sudden danger, embroidery with images of people, landscapes, buildings - helps maintain success in various business endeavors.

4. A tanned fur skin, according to a long-standing belief, promotes successful trade, increases capital, and also protects previously acquired property.

5. Ficus creates a positive aura around itself, helps to concentrate, calm down after stress, extinguish nervousness, and normalizes the energy in the house. To restore physical and mental health, sit in the evening for half an hour near a ficus, holding its leaf between your palms and closing your eyes, mentally tell it about your failures, and it will help you get rid of negative thoughts and emotions.

6. A bear figurine, placed in a prominent place, protects the house from evil spirits and evil spells, is a talisman of the family hearth, and also stores monetary wealth in the house. She should be alternately in the room and in the kitchen.

7. Ears of wheat, rye, oats, placed in a vase (they can even be artificial), always contribute only to well-being, wealth, health, comfort and peace in the house. They perfectly neutralize currents of negative energy. Therefore, during the period from December 25 to January 6, it is recommended to constantly keep a vase of cookies, bagels, crackers, and bread rolls on the table, as this will ensure profitable financial agreements on these days, receiving a large sum of money, and possibly news of an inheritance or will.

8. A strong amulet against the evil eye and damage is the icon called the Seven Shot. Located opposite the front door, it will not only protect you from the evil eye and guests with bad intentions, but will also prevent them from even approaching your doors. With her appearance in the house, there are fewer scandals and conflicts, slander and anger that can arise due to trifles.