Dream Interpretation: Why do you dream about your ex-husband? Why do you dream about your ex-lover, husband, boyfriend?

Every night people dream. Even if a person, after waking up, thinks that he did not dream of anything, he is mistaken. Dreams occur every night, people just don’t always remember them. Having seen some vivid, memorable, bad or good, dreams, many try to see in them an omen of upcoming life events. Therefore, after “viewing” this or that dream vision, these people wonder what it could mean and what incidents to predict. One of these questions is, for example, why the ex-husband dreams. The interpretation of such a dream depends on how long ago the spouse became an ex. If this happened recently, then his appearance in a dream is explained by the woman’s frequent thoughts about him and the freshness of her memories of her relationship with this man. If enough time has passed and the woman lives in a new way, without remembering her old life partner, then it is quite possible to begin deciphering such a dream in order to understand what it may precede.

Interpretation of sleep by different authors

To determine what such a dream could mean, you need to find out what the dream book says about it. An ex-husband in dreams is an omen of various events, depending on what accompanies his arrival in a dream vision, what actions and circumstances. There are many dream books and they all interpret this dream differently.

According to Vanga’s dream book, if you dreamed about your ex-husband, and in this vision nothing connects him anymore, this means that the woman has not yet subconsciously let go of this man and is waiting for the resumption of the relationship. If in the dream they are spouses again, and everything is good in the relationship, then this is a sign that the woman has forgotten her former life partner, and her heart is open to new love.

Seeing your ex-husband in a dream, according to Freud’s dream book, means a possible quarrel with your current chosen one. Such visions signal a lack of satisfaction in the relationship. To avoid discord, you should saturate your personal life with your new partner.

Miller's dream book says that a kiss in a dream vision with a former life partner foreshadows some amazing events in life. Intimate relationships with him are harbingers of conflict with someone. A scandal with your ex-husband in a dream can mean happy changes on the personal front. Parting with him means failure in a new relationship.

The dream book of the fortuneteller Loff says that getting married again to your former spouse means possible troubles in the near future. The wedding of an ex with another bride indicates that a woman cannot forgive someone. The death of a former spouse in a dream means a new marriage or the birth of a child.

Nostradamus said that such dreams are a sign that the life partner with whom the woman broke up mentally does not want to let her go. And his thoughts come to her in dreams. Perhaps he is trying to win her back in various ways.

Other interpretations of sleep

Numerous dream books interpret this dream differently. An ex-husband present in a dream can predict a meeting with the past - not only with the ex-spouse himself, but also with old friends or colleagues from a previous place of work. If a woman hits her husband in a dream, this indicates remaining disagreements with this man, due to which the separation occurred.

Physical intimacy with an ex-husband in night vision without a feeling of pleasure may be a warning that a woman needs to try to be less hot-tempered, otherwise this may negatively affect relationships with others. A failed kiss can signal hidden feelings that have a detrimental effect on relationships with other men. A completed kiss with a former partner is a harbinger of a new love relationship.

A dream about a drunken ex-husband can indicate the frivolity of a woman’s behavior during this period. In order not to spoil her reputation, she should be more careful and prudent.

The wedding ceremony of a former beloved man can be interpreted as an omen of dramatic changes in his personal life, and a possible resumption of relations with his former spouse. Also, such a sleepy vision can indicate that a woman will be able to easily achieve some goal, but after some time. Marrying your ex-husband, as in Loff’s dream book, means approaching troubles, quarrels and discord in your personal life. But to see your husband’s wedding with another woman means you risk finding yourself in an awkward ambiguous situation. It is recommended not to commit rash and thoughtless actions.

The death of a former life partner, in addition to the version of Loff’s dream book, can also be interpreted as advice to resume communication with him, but not in a love sense, but as a friend or work partner.

Many dream books “agree” with Miller’s version of a dream in which a wife quarrels with her ex-husband. Frequent repetition of such a dream may indicate imminent positive changes in a woman’s personal life.

A smiling ex-lover who often appears in dreams may indicate that a woman mentally often compares him with her new chosen one. In this case, a woman should understand herself and her feelings and completely forget about past relationships.

If an adult woman has a dream in which there is a husband from whom she separated many years ago, and in the dream they are both young, then this is a sign that she lacks romance, or perhaps wants some kind of light, carefree romance. Don't deny yourself this pleasure. And if she is already in a relationship with a man, then she should try to make it more free and romantic. To do this, you need to try to get rid of the burden of everyday worries and, perhaps, go somewhere to relax together.

Obsessive dream about ex-husband

If dreams involving your ex-spouse become intrusive and interfere with peace of mind or the building of new relationships, you need to understand the reason for their occurrence and eliminate it. To do this, a woman must analyze her thoughts, her attitude towards her ex-husband, understand what she wants from him in the future and what she feels.

If the matter is about warm feelings for this person that continue to live in the woman’s soul, and the separation was caused by the temper of one of the spouses or both, then it’s worth talking to your husband. The pretext can be sending (by any means) congratulations on your ex-husband’s birthday or on any other upcoming holiday. If both spouses regret what happened, then the relationship can resume. But even if this does not happen, it will become easier for both of them to forgive each other.

If a woman cannot forgive her ex-husband for her insult, this may also be the reason for his obsessive presence in dreams. You must try to forget this offense and forgive this person, for the sake of your own peace of mind and the opportunity to build a new life.

If the reason for the frequent repetition of such a dream is the constant subconscious comparison of other men with a former life partner, then you need to stop doing this. You need to figure out what is missing in the new relationship, discuss it with your current partner (of course, without mentioning your ex-husband) and try to make up for this lack. And don’t fill the void with memories of your ex-spouse.

Was last modified: August 2nd, 2016 by Elena Pogodaeva

Dreams in which a woman saw a man with whom she had a relationship in the past are interpreted primarily from a psychological point of view. Like, the feelings still remain, so the subconscious produces the desired picture.

At the same time, in reality, according to professional astrologers, everything is far from being so simple. Such an interpretation can only take place if the young lady really remembers her ex-boyfriend (husband) all day long, and it doesn’t matter whether it’s from the good or bad side. Then indeed, the plot seen is most likely a continuation of her thoughts. Although even in this case, the dream can have predictive value depending on the context. The more details you remember that were in your dream, the more reliable and accurate your understanding will be. Thus, to understand what it means if you dream about your ex, you need to analyze the context.

Miller's Dream Book

This dream book pays great attention to a similar plot:

• if you dreamed that your ex has returned and you meet him again, experiencing feelings that have long faded away in real life, you will face the consequences of actions committed earlier, and they can have both positive and negative connotations;
• a dream in which an ex-husband hugs and kisses means experiencing surprise in the near future;
• an intimate relationship with an ex-man, seen in a dream, warns that an exacerbation of an old conflict is possible, which will happen soon enough;
• if your ex leaves, such a plot promises you a new meeting, which, however, will not bring happiness and will be just as unsuccessful as the previous relationship;
• a fight with a former lover indicates that your current boyfriend will display possessive tendencies or be marked by authoritarian behavior.

Vanga's Dream Book

According to the interpretation of the great seer, all people or things seen in a dream that fall under the category of “former” symbolize something that has long disappeared. It could be a lover, an old school friend, or a cell phone. At the same time, if you dreamed of a young man with whom the relationship has ended, but you have tender feelings for him, such a plot indicates that you secretly hope to renew the connection.

If you dreamed that you were together with him, and there was never a separation, in real life you are finally ready to move on and let go of old feelings.

News received from former colleagues, classmates, fellow students suggests that you are waiting for news from a friend who is now somewhere far away.

Freud's Dream Book

A well-known psychotherapist states the following:

• a meeting with an ex-man foreshadows a possible quarrel with your current partner. Such a dream indicates constant comparisons, which are not always in favor of the one who is next to you now. To avoid conflict, you need to monitor your statements and behavior, and also remember that if your ex-man was that good, you would be together now;
• it is quite possible that such a dream indicates that the girl is not ready for a new relationship, since the emotional connection with her former partner has not yet faded.

Dream Interpretation of Nostradamus

If you dreamed about your ex-man, beware of witches and the evil eye. This is especially true if he has serious feelings for you. It is quite possible that they are trying to spoil you.

Loff's Dream Book

The interpretation of this plot varies depending on the context:

• you dreamed about your ex’s wedding, or he is already with his wife - this means you can forgive the one against whom you harbored a long-standing grudge;
• if you marry your ex, expect big troubles;
• if he is inflamed with ardent love for you, be prepared to be surprised;
• seeing him dead means a quick marriage and the birth of a child.

Dream Interpretation of Hasse

A dream in which you saw a breakup with an ex-man indicates that a new period has begun in your life, you are ready for new achievements. Priorities and goals will change dramatically. You need to reconsider your own way of life, and then you can rise to a new level.

Dream Interpretation Meneghetti

Seeing yourself talking to your ex in a dream is a harbinger of an imminent illness of someone close to you. It will be very long and serious, with an unpredictable outcome.

If you saw your ex-boyfriend with his family, this is a good sign indicating that you will have a great time in the very near future.

If you dreamed that your ex was smiling at you affectionately, it means that your current partner is raising doubts in you, which, however, are not at all justified.

Thus, you should not think that you can only dream about a man who left your life if your feelings for him have not yet faded away. It can symbolize events that await in the near future.

Only a few people are able to control what they see at night. The rest are trying to understand the nature of their dreams in order to understand how to act in a given situation.

Divorced women often see their ex-husband in their dreams. Why do you dream about the man with whom you spent some part of your life? We’ll figure it out in the article. Let's look at several of the most popular dream books, and also tell you how psychologists interpret such visions.

Experts who study how our subconscious operates agree that it tries to sort out many unresolved problems through sleep. If you often dream about your ex-husband, you probably can't get thoughts of him out of your head. It is possible that you still hope to renew the relationship and consider the separation to be temporary.

There are other reasons that psychologists name as the main ones:

• The separation was painful due to numerous grievances and mutual claims. You parted not as friends, but practically as enemies, and this continues to torment you. In this case, a conversation with the ex-spouse will help, which should put everything in its place;
• During the day you come across some associations. The aroma of the eau de toilette that your man used or his favorite melody can evoke memories that trigger a dream at night involving an ex.

Whatever the reason for the dream, psychologists recommend getting rid of it first, otherwise night visions can bother you for a long time.

People's dream book

If you think that only dream books can understand the true background of why your ex comes to you in a dream and why you dream, use one of the traditional methods of dream interpretation.

The folk dream book gives several ways to interpret what you see at night:

• There are things in your present that need to be completed. The image of the ex-spouse symbolizes the past, which is worth leaving in order to start a new life. His appearance is not necessarily connected with his personal life. Complete things that have been bothering you for a long time;
• the events of the past will soon manifest themselves. Don't think that something unpleasant awaits you. On the contrary, you may run into someone you haven't talked to for a long time and regret it;
• if you dreamed that your husband kissed you, this marks the beginning of a new romantic relationship that could end in a wedding;
• a man who appears with a new lover indicates that joyful events will soon happen in your life. Sometimes such a dream means that your spouse cannot forget you;
• if you see your husband intoxicated, you are too frivolous in relationships with the opposite sex. This causes condemnation from others and gives rise to unpleasant rumors.

Freud's Dream Book

Sigmund Freud attached particular importance to dreams related to the relationship between a man and a woman. The psychoanalyst interprets participation in the night visions of the ex-spouse in different ways. If you are in a new relationship, this indicates problems with your partner.

Intimacy or other caresses with a lover indicate the presence of sexual dissatisfaction, which may not be obvious even to you. Perhaps there is a lack of passion or true spiritual connection in your relationship with your new partner.

A conversation with an ex-spouse signals a lack of attention and the need for psychological help.

Miller's Dream Book

The interpreter interprets visions depending on what events happen to you in a dream:

• intimate intimacy speaks of an upcoming renewal of conflict from the past;
• a kiss predicts upcoming surprise;
• a quarrel talks about upcoming positive events;
• separation signals a new acquaintance, which may end in negativity;
• if in a dream your spouse appears unhappy or ugly, difficulties await you;
• a pleasant appearance and a good mood, on the contrary, predict good luck;
• if your lover appears without clothes, then you may get a job that will put you in an ambiguous and difficult situation;
• playing the guitar by the husband predicts a serious illness;
• if the ex screams loudly, in the real world he is now very bad;
• curses from the ex-spouse predict difficulties that will be difficult to overcome.

Vanga's Dream Book

Interpretation according to the method of the great fortuneteller suggests that you are striving to return past relationships. If you see a reunion and restoration of a relationship in a dream, it means that everything is over. You were able to overcome yourself and parted with thoughts about the man.

A dream involving a drunken husband says that he is sad and needs help. If the mother-in-law is present, then she feels regret over the broken marriage.

Loff's Dream Book

Seeing your ex in a new marriage means forgiveness. You will part with feelings of resentment towards the person with whom you have been angry for a long time. If your ex-spouse marries you, this predicts serious problems.

The feeling of tenderness and love that has arisen between you promises surprises, not necessarily pleasant ones. The death of a husband in a dream signals family happiness and positive changes in his personal life.

Dream Interpretation of Nostradamus

Another interpreter focuses on past events to predict what to expect in the distant future. The dream book urges you to be wary of all people who practice magic if your ex often comes to you in night visions.

Intimacy seen in a dream is a kind of warning. You need to be more careful about your actions, otherwise you will soon have to answer for some of them. Meeting with a spouse who has passed away promises serious problems.

Tsvetkov's Dream Interpretation

This dream interpreter considers the appearance of an ex-lover a manifestation of upcoming negative events. A man, according to the interpretation, carries aggression within himself and therefore predicts bad things. It is not necessary to remember all the details, because even if there are no details, the ex means something unpleasant:

• if you accidentally bump into your spouse, get ready for anxiety and serious problems;
• a showdown warns of the possibility of making a hasty, wrong decision;
• meeting your husband after a long separation promises financial troubles or illnesses of loved ones;
• flirting indicates that you will quarrel with a new partner or reconsider the need for a relationship with him;
• if in a dream you laugh at your lover, then in reality you yourself may be attacked by enemies;
• seeing the ex-spouse return after separation predicts misfortune. There will be many more problems if you broke up badly and the relationship did not work out from the very beginning. Beware of the black stripe.

Psychologists and dream books can interpret what they see in night visions in different ways. However, in most cases, all interpreters agree that the past relationship did not end well, so you cannot let it go. Certain situations involving an ex may appear in dream books with different meanings. If you are sure that the dream is not connected with your subconscious, look for the answer in one of the above interpreters.

If you dream about your ex-partners, it could just be a coincidence, or it could also carry clues from the subconscious. Therefore, it is worth turning to dream books and finding out what your ex-husband dreams about.

Interpretation of dreams in popular dream books

Every woman has dreams with her ex-husband in the lead role at least once.

They can be interpreted in different ways:

• Longo's dream book interprets the presence of former lovers in a dream very simply: feelings have not faded away, and you live in memories. If you are forming a new relationship, and your ex-spouse keeps visiting you in your dreams, be careful: the likelihood of losing your barely formed feelings is very high. The chosen one senses your detachment and lack of care.
• In Tsvetkov’s dream book, most dream options with exes are interpreted negatively. For example, if you dreamed of a chance meeting, troubles will also unexpectedly overtake you. By flirting in a dream, you jeopardize new relationships in reality. Problems may begin with loved ones, at work.

Particularly dangerous are chains of dreams in which an ex-man returns home. Women who experience such dreams will face a dark streak in life.

• Freud's dream book interprets contact with an ex-spouse as sexual dissatisfaction and discord in a new relationship. In addition, you may feel abandoned by everyone and need a strong, friendly shoulder. In such cases, meeting with an ex is an unconscious search for a person who was once close and could support at any time.
• Loff's dream book interprets kisses and hugs with an ex-husband as a sign of imminent pleasant surprises. If in reality you didn’t quarrel with your ex-husband, but he died, then having mercy with him in a dream is a symbol of the upcoming wedding troubles.
• Vanga said that if in a woman’s dream she sees a plot where she and her ex have an ideal, impeccable relationship, full of harmony and mutual understanding, then very soon she will meet the man whom she can love and will receive reciprocity.

Today, most people use dream books to interpret dreams. Let's consider today why you dream about your ex-husband, with whom you broke up. What consequences are expected after the dream? We will answer all questions in today's article.

Loff's Dream Book

Often ex-wives see in their dreams how their husband marries a new girl; in reality, you will forgive the person who once hurt you.

Your ex-husband loves you passionately, just like at the beginning of the relationship - expect many surprises that will not always be good for you.

The death of her ex-husband suggests that the woman will soon acquire a family where her current husband will love and give her the long-awaited baby.

Dream Interpretation Meneghetti

Talking in a dream with your former lover - fate warns you about the illness of your current loved one, as well as your relatives.

Seeing in a dream how your ex-husband has formed a new family means that in the near future you will have a lot of time, which is recommended to be spent with your loved ones. You will be satisfied with such a vacation.

Seeing your husband smiling means that you are comparing your current partner with your ex.

Dream Interpretation of Nostradamus

The dream of an ex-husband with whom you separated 4 years ago suggests that there is a danger from clairvoyant people. Be careful with people who have the gift of clairvoyance, fortune tellers and witches. You should be especially wary if in a dream your lover burns with a passion that has not been observed before.

In a dream, your ex-husband is dating another girl - it’s time to forget about all the grievances and disappointments in your ex-family. Leave all memories in the past. Remember that it is impossible to restore already lost feelings. Forget and live your new life, where there is no past.

Miller's Dream Book

Meeting your ex-husband again in a dream means surging feelings and remembering long-standing events with him.

If you see yourself kissing in a dream, you will soon meet with your former chosen one. Either it will be a simple chance meeting, or for some reason concerning the two of you. If in your dreams you made love with him, then in life you will remember a long-standing conflict that will negatively affect your current relationship.

In a dream, you had a fight with him, this indicates that you will soon have a new serious relationship or your loved one will propose marriage. In general, your personal life will change for the better.

Seeing how you break up again means that a new meeting will soon take place, the result of which will not be entirely favorable.

In your dreams you got into a fight with your ex-husband. Firstly, this may mean that the current chosen one may begin to raise his hand against you. In another case, this suggests that an authoritative man may appear in life.

Freud's Dream Book

Why do you dream about your ex-husband, whom you broke up with 1 year ago? Be careful, you may quarrel with your loved one. Having seen such a dream, you should not tell your current chosen one about what you saw, and also do not show him that from time to time you compare your relationship with your husband and with him. Your loved one is unlikely to like such a story, so before you tell anything about your personal life, think about whether this news will hurt you deeply in your heart? The dream can be seen if in reality you really miss your past relationship.

Dream Interpretation of Hasse

In your dreams you broke up with your ex-husband - expect a new relationship with another man. They will much more interesting, varied and exciting. Now you will begin to have a different attitude towards life, change your view of the world and destroy all your former ideals. Such a restructuring in consciousness will improve the state of your entire life.

The ex-husband was drunk in a dream, indicating that his psycho-emotional state may be on the verge of a nervous breakdown. Sometimes, most men and women, after breaking up, remain friends. If the same is true in your case, then it will be important to support him in such a difficult moment. Remember your entire dream down to the smallest detail, then you can understand what it’s like for him. Of course, there is another side to the coin - you may encounter unpleasant situations that will be very difficult to get rid of. In any case, be extremely careful.

Your vision predicted to you how your ex-husband dies by your hand - expect a successful turn of fate in all your new projects and endeavors.

Why do you dream about your ex-husband, whom you broke up with many years ago? The spouse with whom you separated in your dream is not at all like himself - global changes await you. They can be both positive and negative.

Your ex-spouse gives you a gift in a dream - most likely they will cheat on you, be on your guard.

In a dream, you saw your ex-spouse in a dirty state, this is a harbinger of trouble.

Vanga's Dream Book

In a dream you saw your ex-lover, this suggests that your past relationship is still very memorable for you. You also want to restore your relationship with him.

In your dreams you saw a husband with whom you were having fun and did not part with him - in reality this means that you let him go and your heart is free for another person.

Seeing your classmates, school friends, or work colleagues in a dream means that you will soon receive good news about your old friend.

Tsvetkov's Dream Interpretation

In a dream you met your ex-husband, warns a woman against actions of a light nature. Without listening to your vision, you can make irreparable mistakes that will lead to discord in your new family or relationship.

A divorced or married woman, having met her ex-husband in a dream, will soon be constantly on the move. It can also be various problems related to the household, problems at school, kindergarten, or university. Such a dream can also be interpreted as a temporary financial problem, which is complicated, on top of everything else, by the illness of the real husband. This is what you dream about about your ex-husband, with whom you broke up 2 years ago.

If your ex-husband died and appeared to you in a dream, then be extremely careful. Most likely you are in danger.

In a dream, a husband dies, then Tsvetkov’s dream book interprets it as follows - a long-awaited pregnancy may occur.

Longo's Dream Interpretation

Meeting your former beloved spouse in a dream means that you still cannot forget about him and your heart is still occupied with him. This state of yours will not lead to a new happy life. You will stop feeling like a woman and developing as a person. Try to stop thinking about your past, live in the present. By changing your attitude towards your ex-husband, in the near future you will meet true love, which will bring more bright moments into your life.

Why do you dream about your ex-husband, with whom you recently broke up and in a dream gave you a bouquet of flowers - most likely, soon your ex-husband will come to you in order to restore the relationship.

In a dream, your husband makes an appointment with you, this indicates that he really misses your relationship. Does he remember everything down to the smallest detail, how did you meet for the first time? How did you walk along the quiet deserted streets in the park? How was your first wedding anniversary? These and many other memories associated with you haunt him. Having made up his mind, he will come to you soon with a serious conversation, maybe it’s worth reconciling then, so as not to torment each other?

Esoteric dream book

Many women, after a divorce from their beloved spouse, often find themselves in the same bed together in their dreams with clearly manifested passion - expect trouble. Soon you will have problems that will be very difficult to resolve. Kissing your ex - a situation will soon arise that will greatly surprise you. Intimacy means that a long-standing conflict will reappear and it will be very difficult to resolve it.

Separating from your ex-husband means that your business meeting will not be successful. In a dream, your ex-husband screams a lot - is it worth calling him and asking if everything is okay with him? Maybe he needs your help and support.

Why dream of an ex-husband helping in some business, with whom you have been separated for many years - soon you will prevail over your enemies and rivals.

Other interpretations of a dream about an ex-spouse